Love Where You Are At Right Now In Life

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I often over hear people saying, if I just had this or that I would be happier and at peace. Now, true enough I would love to have a maid right about now and a trip to the beach would be lovely but nothing is going to stop me from being happy right now. I want you to just think for a second or two about how blessed you are at the moment. You are able to see this post which means you have internet connection at your finger tips. Do you know how many people at this very moment are lacking internet? You are blessed! You are able to clearly see what I am typing. Do you know how many people are blind? We must learn how to rejoice and be happy with what we got at the moment. True enough you may want more but learn how to be happy where you are at….. If you don’t have a dime in your account like me…. learn how to rejoice and be happy where you are at……..

How to Love Where You Are At Right Now>>>>>>>>

1). Enjoy nature….Honey, nature is free and so much more entertaining than television….Take a walk, hike, or sit by some water and just breathe

2). Stop WORRYING…worrying never manifested more money it just manifest more lack…..

3). Read more…..and more of any of my books would be great…… Honey, I’m Full Figured So What, Honey, Your Shoes Ain’t Nothing New, Southern Secrets, Southern Secrets 2

4). Stop and really look at all the things that make you happy right now…. Not the job you need, house you need, car you need, meaningless stuff you need, and relationship with others you need…..

5). Play that dang on HAPPY song and dance really wild and free…. TRUST ME this works…I am about to play it right now…

ENJOY YOUR DAY AND REMEMBER YOU ARE LOVED AND PERFECT JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!!!!!!

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Wounded Healer… Say What?

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I was passing a church near my home and on the billboard in large letters I saw the phrase WOUNDED HEALER and I started to think that hey, that’s me, a wounded healer. I have been through so much pain and heartache that I can just about relate to a variety of testimonies and have a gift that seems like a curse at times. The gift of feeling the pain and issues of others and being able to relate because I am a wounded healer or better yet I am extremely empathic. Empathy can create a load of issues. If you are an empath or wounded healer you must learn how to separate yourself from stressful situations and scenarios that don’t belong to you. Because of your helpfulness and ability to relate to others you are now carrying around feelings that your don’t own and in this case your wounds are reopened and you are back in your head again with a thousand and one fears, anxieties and woes that have been dumped over and onto you. It is so imperative for empaths or wounded healers to center and clear self regularly.

I am sure you are wondering, how do I center and clear myself and I have a couple of exercises I do. After a client or friend has dumped a boat load of issues onto me I quickly do a chakra clearing meditation, brisk walk on a nature trail, and take a long essential oil and sea salt bath to sort of clear myself. So, if you are a wounded healer/ empathy try some of these activities to clear your energy.

If you are interested in more strategies go to amazon and grab Honey, I’m Full Figured So What by Ross Wright, myself, which has a healing guide or cleansing guide in the back and remember pray and meditate a heck of a lot..

Enjoy your Sunday!!!!

Fears oh my!

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I am up and my eye are blinking in and out as fear keeps me from falling asleep. Maybe it’s the fear of death or maybe it’s just the thousand and one thoughts that are currently running in my head. My fears of death seemed to be even more enhanced since I have my children. I think every mother instantly develops anxiety and their new wish is the same as mines  to see their babies grow up and be well..  

I am here to tell you and myself at the same time that worrying only prohibits you from enjoying the present moment and nothing can change the future besides having additional stress from worrying so darn much…..My advice is super simple well at least to me it is. My advice is to drop kick and banish the need to worry and start enjoying the things that are happening now….

Honey, get into the now and drop the desire to worry about anything pass this moment