Negative Thoughts = Disaster


Thoughts raced in my mind quicker than a speeding bullet or at least that sounds about right. Fear seems to be contagious in a way. I would hang around certain people and before long I would have fears racing in my head and some of those fears did not belong to me. So, was I supposed to live in a bubble? or just  run like hell from people? But choices that I came up with did not go with my personality. I am a lover of people and even animals too. I loved talking to people about life and experiences but if I got around a crew that had a thousand and one buts as to why they are not happy and where they want to be and had something negative say about not only themselves but other people I would slowly feel myself loosing energy as I absorbed their crap. My husband says to me all of the time that I listen and that’s all people want is for someone to listen but I wasn’t just listening I was absorbing and I wasn’t getting paid for it. The thing is this. I have to learn how to step in take my power back and do what makes me feel great and that’s speaking life over myself and others. So toss those negative thoughts out the door and welcome in new people and situations.

Steps to elevate Negativity in your Life

1. Pray( please a prayer in your God box asking God to change your mind set and place positive and progressive people in your life and block out all of those that aren’t right for you)

2. Live your life (Do fun things….laugh a lot and worry less)

3. At the end of the day and before your day begins MEDITATE

4. Exercise more( walks in nature)

5. Eat healthier( going to sleep after eating cake will have you dreaming all kinds of crazy stuff.

6. If somebody is around you and everything is negative just walk away and politely excuse yourself *you might be alone for  awhile but honey that is better than being around someone that dumps their crap on you…

Peace and Love to you ALL!!!!!!

BEWARE of people that DRAIN YOU!!!!!


We understand that our thoughts and energy are rapidly moving around in the universe. Therefore from time to time we must ground our energy or even transmute negative energy that has attached to us….For example you break up with a guy or lady and you still have pictures or objects in your house that remind you of them and seeing those objects can stir up emotions and feelings. So lets do a declutter and disconnection exercise…

1). THROW away all objects and items that belonged to that person( believe it or not these things hold energy)

2). Before you meditate say a prayer asking for all negative thoughts and resentment feelings be turned into positive ones

pray for detachment emotional, and physical attachment from the person and their thoughts

3). Meditate with carnelian  . Why carnelian? because it protects from harmful thoughts, enchantments, negative energy and Blue  Chalcedony

I recommend meditating with and wearing these two stones to help strengthen your aura and lessen the opportunity of energy vampires and harmful thoughtforms…..Now, I am sure some of you are like what in the heck am I talking about…To learn more tune into The Healing Flo Lounge YouTube channel and check out Honey, I’m Full Figured So What for healing guides..